
Layout by: Erelah Janika Geniza
Published by: Kyla Shane Recullo
Date published: November 14, 2025
Time published: 11:20 AM
Sold-out concerts. Chart-topping love songs. Millions of streams. At the time, he lacked those. What he had were nights when silence was more loud than applause, an empty room, and unanswered calls. But because dreams don't die quietly, he continued to play.
Today, Titus John “TJ” Monterde stands as one of OPM’s most beloved storytellers. But let us go back to the past 15 years. His stage looked very different. There were no lights, screaming fans, and no viral moment. Just a young man who lived in Cagayan de Oro, guitar in hand, hope in mind, and writing songs that the world was not ready to hear yet.
In a music industry where success in the entertainment comes suddenly through viral hits and overnight crashes. But for TJ, his story is one of a kind. Waiting and steady belief in himself. After 15 years of effort, he finally found himself in the spotlight he had long dreamed of. He waited; painfully, faithfully.
𝗤𝗨𝗜𝗘𝗧 𝗕𝗘𝗚𝗜𝗡𝗡𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗦
TJ’s earliest memories of music were never about fame. It was him growing up in Cagayan de Oro, he was surrounded by the songs of everyday life, old OPM love ballads that are being played on the radio, acoustic guitars, melodies that spoke more of honesty than spectacle.
He started by writing quietly, for himself. Long before anyone cared to listen. Bedroom is the first stage.
Long before YouTube started to become a phenomenon, he was already there. Uploading songs with nothing but guitar and faith that someone, somewhere would connect with him. With his music.
But connection didn’t come easily. The road stretched longer.
𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗪𝗘 𝗗𝗜𝗗 𝗡𝗢𝗧 𝗦𝗘𝗘
Fifteen years is a lifetime in the entertainment world, long enough for some artists to bloom and fade, for those trends to rise or to fall. But for TJ Monterde, those were years of fighting for passion.
Fifteen years is a lifetime in the entertainment world, long enough for careers to bloom and fade, for trends to rise and fall. But for TJ Monterde, those were years of fighting for his passion.
Small gigs, small pays. Spent long nights writing songs that might never be heard. Days when views did not climb. When friends wondered if he should just find a safer path, a path that he already knew where he was going. Yet, through it all. He kept on writing, kept playing guitars, kept posting song covers.
Behind those stage lights that we see today were countless moments of self-doubt. But also, lots of countless choices to keep on thriving.
𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗪𝗔𝗬 𝗧𝗢 𝗥𝗘𝗖𝗢𝗚𝗡𝗜𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡
What set TJ apart was not just his talent. It was his writing. His songs were like love letters in melody. Simple, but piercing. Filled with the kind of honesty that made listeners feel like he was singing their stories.
“Ikaw at Ako” and “Tulad Mo” began to carve a quiet but loyal space for him, only him, in OPM. They were not booming overnight hits but they resonated deeply with those who found them. For many, TJ became the soundtrack to late-night bus rides, quiet heartbreaks, and the slow, beautiful spreading out love.
Over time, his steady connection grew into a fanbase. Fanbase that fills venues and pushes him more to the top of the charts. He did not chase trends. It was him who built trends. Not only trends, but also trusts. One song each time.
𝗧𝗨𝗥𝗡𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗣𝗢𝗜𝗡𝗧
From one song each time, it turned to bigger stages opened for collaborations. By then, TJ’s years of persistence had pushed him into not just a singer but a respected songwriter. While KZ Tandingan, his now wife, added both inspiration and visibility to his long time journey.
Together, they became one of OPM’s powerful couple. But even on his own, TJ had established his voice.
Authentic. Tender. Timeless.
𝗪𝗔𝗜𝗧𝗜𝗡𝗚. 𝗥𝗜𝗦𝗜𝗡𝗚
Fast-forward to where he is today: TJ Monterde’s name stands out among OPM’s finest. His concerts were sell out. His songs gather millions of streams. His lyrics echo in the hearts of many who waited with him through the years.
Yet, his rise felt different from the usual rise of fame. There is no rushing, no flash. Instead, there was a weight of patience and faith. His career is not just about reaching the top, it was about proving that we don't need to rush in everything we do. Slow growth can last longer, can shine brighter, and mean so much.
He now stands in front of New Frontier Theater, Araneta, and stages all over the world. TJ’s success feels certain. But it was not. It was earned; through 15 years of patience and faith.
His story is not just about music. It is about trust and faith in God. It is about believing that the long road, however uncertain, leads to somewhere worth driving for.
It is because success is based on faith, patience, and purpose endures, as seen by TJ Monterde's journey. Every dreamer can learn from his tale to remain dedicated, have faith in every procedure, and think that every setback has purpose.
Because indeed, 𝘴𝘢 𝘵𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘢𝘩𝘰𝘯, 𝘥𝘢𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘪𝘯 ’𝘺𝘰𝘯.
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